I believe all the emotional intelligence
tests that are actually in a “test” format would be an inaccurate indicator of
a person’s actual emotional intelligence. I believe the best emotional intelligence
indicator is a person’s own reflection on his or her action, emotions, and
social relations. Every person is his or her selves’ best indicator of how successful
he or she is at coping with emotional situations, or even advising others at
time they need someone to talk to. How emotionally intelligent a person is also
a huge indicator of how they preform socially or how they effectively form
relations with others around them. I think everyone knows their true self the
best and a true reflection where the person can evaluate how happy he or she is
with dealing with emotional situations or social relations is the best emotional
indicator one can possibly test his or her emotional intelligence. This is
because when someone is in testing mode, they never act as they truly would in
the real world. Also, tests are limited to a few answers, where real life has
an endless amount of scenarios a person could chose from. All it takes is the
person to be true to them selves and take a few moments to reflect on how they
feel about their situation from both aspects of dealing with an emotional situation,
and trying to help another person go through an emotional situation. How happy
that person is with their current situation is the most accurate result. Also a
person reflecting on all emotional aspects of his of her life would also
realize right then what aspects he or she likes to change or preform
differently.
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